If you are a parent who thinks how can I choose the right toy? What are the kind of toys I should offer to my little one?  I need to check for age only or any other criteria too? What will really help them to grow? Then check it out my Tips On ToyBox  and here I am suggesting top most toys to offer :

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Blocks Beads & Puzzle:  This will help to develop fine motor skills and problem solving approach in your child. Try to guide but don’t force them to play the exact way let them make whatever they like. There are many types of different blocks/puzzles available in market you can choose them by checking size n no. of pieces on it. Wooden blocks and toys are always best as they give realistic effect and long lasting.

Balls: Ball will provide little physical exercise both outside and inside the house and develop gross motor skills.That will build physical stamina of your kid as well as develop hand-eye co-ordination and balancing.

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Dress Up Toys: These will give idea of real social helper and what are the importance of them in day to day life like doctors firefighters teachers and many more. Dress up of animals and fairy tells will extend  their cognitive and  imagination power.

Toy House Tunnel & Toy Kitchen; who doesn’t like to have their own house and so the kids. They like to play with their own tent tunnel or toy house especially kitchen. They have noticed that how a kitchen is an important part of a house and that’s why kids love to play with kitchenware a lot than any other toys. They explore here whatever they learn from normal routine life and express their emotions by their play.

Dolls Cars & Trains: “Dream comes true” and this thing they will realize by fairy tales and dolls and if it’s a boy from cars and trains. With a doll kids can learn zipping loving caring combing buttoning and many more things. Normally cars and trains are option of dolls if it’s a boy but that doesn’t mean girls don’t play with it or boys don’t play with dolls. These kinds of toys teach self-control and build good story teller.

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Board Games: Board game likes memory game snack n ladder sequencing etc will teach them a concept of win/loose. It will also teach them team concept taking turn and how to have patience.

Art & Craft: Inside every kid there is an Artist and you just need to help them to come out kids have their own way to see the world and that’s really very beautiful. Give them crayons and paper and they will surprise you with their outstanding thinking. Water colors are best even if your kid is not interested in coloring he/she will play with water color for sure. Let them use their finger and hands. Play dough is also a good option and develop fine motor skills.

Musical Instrument: Kids love to dance sing and even play some of musical instrument. Dance will help them to stretch their body as well as music will refresh them. Music will enhance concentration and memory power. I know you wont believe this but memory of kid who is learning music is 40% higher than a memory of a normal kid!!!!

Water & Sand Play: Most of the kids are fond of water and sand. Give them bathtub toys bubble maker bucket shovel shells stones sand & water creature and just see how much fun it is. With these toys they are really free to explore themselves so even unconscious part of their mind can be visible and they understand the nature and creature.

 Books & CDs: Always try to read at least one book before going to bed for your kid. Early reader technique will develop learning skills in your kid. Books are very good way to tell them dos and don’t as well as increase vocabulary. Early reader technique will develop learning skills and discipline in your kid.  If you don’t prefer reading then go for CDs of kid’s rhymes or cartoons.

You should always give your kids a toy for which they need to do more things rather than choosing a toy with multi functionality as the more children have to do to play the more they will learn.

When it comes to kids and their toys many parents will say not a big deal why should we   think about it we just need to give them whatever they want!!!!! But actually that’s not true. Toys are not just to engage them, that really help them to grow. You can give kids two types of toys: 1. Real stuff 2. From the shop First one is very easy kids can play everything!! really everything so you can offer them vessels, broom, empty boxes, bottles, wrappers , bags , newspapers , old clothes or even old shoes and they will enjoy to play with all these. But who doesn’t want to buy toys for their kids? Toys available in shops are really very attractive but do u think it’s a good choice to buy a stylish mobile without any proper apps in that? No right? same with the toys most of the toys look attractive but of no use it won’t help your kid to grow your kid can play with it and may be its worth for you but actually toys are not just to play but to learn to encourage  to help your kids to grow and many more……. So choose toys by yourself and very carefully. You can check the backside of the pack there will be little information about age of kid and what will they learn if it’s not there don’t hesitate to ask shop keeper what your kid will learn from it or read the review from the internet. Here are few tips to make your selection easier:

• Age appropriate toys:There will be age like 2+ 5+ on the box of toy and don’t forget to check it. It’s not good to give your child a toy which is higher or lower of his/her age. Because if you will choose higher age by thinking in mind it will be useful afterwards then also you are wrong. Because your kid will open that box and will start to play with it in a convenient way so he/she won’t learn anything from it and later when your kid will be able to play in proper way he/she won’t as interest of toy is gone or  won’t be ready to leave the easiest way !!!! So if your kid has completed 2 years choose 2+ if he/she has completed 5 choose 5+ toys. So Toys will affect the way they meant to be.

• Let them choose:Kids will play only those toys which they really like so let them choose what they want to play. Of course that doesn’t mean go to shop and tell them take whatever you like!!! First you go through all the toys select couple of suitable toys for child and tell to choose from those selected toys. This will be beneficial in two ways. First you can offer them a right toy and second they will think it’s their choice as they are final decision maker here.

• Old is new  :well do you have any clothes in your wardrobe you brought last year and wore only once…..try it rather to buy new one and you will get the feeling of new one only. Same with the kids they live in present only so if you think your kid is done with toy don’t trash/discard that toy from toy box instead hide it in your room for couple of weeks and if your kid is younger than 2 year you can rotate a toy every week. You Just need to hide a toy from toy box and place a new toy on their table from your hidden toy box and see the face of your child he/she will be very happy to see this new toy and play with it as before only.
• Let them join you:normal tendency of kids is to follow you. They might not get your words but they will surely get whatever you do. So utilize it with your little interest. Most of the time a kid of singer will be more interested in singing a kid of doctor will be more interested in doctor kit and so on because they can see that their parents are enjoying it so they feel it’s really interesting. So if you want them to play with something don’t just give them a toy n tell them see this is the way you should play in fact let your kid do whatever he/she likes just seat near to your child and open a toy and start playing the game and enjoy it if they will see you are enjoying then they will surely come n ask may I please join you and then play together. Yeah you will say who has this much time but try it at least once it could be a good break for you too or who knows you will like it more than your kid!!

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Well after my last blog celebration-of-love-valentine-special one of my reader said “its good but seems really simple what if I want some extraordinary date?”  And my answer is yes of course that  is simple but sober way quite old one but that always enough to touch some ones heart but if you want an elegant evening here are some tips to impress your love ones  :

1. 1. Search for very good sophisticated restaurant which serves candle light dinner in your city.
   2. Reserve your table to avoid unnecessary trouble.
   3. On valentine day send a heart shape bouquet made of roses and orchid to your love one with a small note of venue and time.
   4.  Go to the restaurant before 10 min.
   5. Order the food she really likes. If you are okay with drink wine will make your dinner more graceful but if you don’t order some cocktail with your meal. Meal should contain appetizer drink main course and dessert.
   6. Ask msp generator no survey DJ / hotel manager to play a love song (which you want to dedicate her) when she arrives or if restaurant doesn’t provide this facility you can play that on your mobile when she arrives.
   7. Don’t forget to stand up and personally offer her seat.
   8. Initiate conversation but talk about her mostly also Listen to her carefully. Don’t take any call or messages during this time.
   9. Give her a gift after meal which should be well wrapped in attractive manner. You can use attractive box to pack which are already available in market. Gift should be really precious and small in size. You can give diamonds or  jewelry or well-known love symbol .
   10. At last walk with her to the parking or drop her to her home.

Valentine day is a day of love, a day to spread love by little gesture and show your love ones how important they are. Yes of course we can do this any time and any day but in our so called busy life we always count on money prestige power position growth and always forget to count on the people whom we love or many times we just don’t know how to express our feelings in effective way. If you are one of them who forget to express your love or just confuse about the way to express your affection here we are to foster your feelings and make your life lively:

1. Spend Quality Time :

The most important thing in any relationship is Time. Time always build strength in relationship. Plan a day for you and your partner without any disturbance. Switch off your phones no internet no laptops no news channels. It’s much more important that how you spend time with your partner than how much time you spend with her/him.

2. Give a Spark of Emotions :

Spending money and getting something from mall or shop is the last thing you should do rather you should give it your personal touch. Make your own card and write some poem or song in that. If you think this is just out of your creativity then just take a paper n couple of color pens, write what do u feel for him/her in your words or something that reminds your first date or what do u like in your partner and if you are thinking of getting married you can propose him/her by reminding how first time you fall for him/her. Remember winners don’t do different but differently.

3. Nothing can be sweeter than  sweets :

Sweets always show right emotions in a right way. Make some heart shape cookies , sweets or chocolates and decorate it by your own  serve it on a table of love with light smell of perfume and romantic music with a flower, bouquet are good but I would say go for a single rose it will express more emotions than the bunch of flowers .

4. Add flavor in your life :

Going out is okay but better you Cook something together and trust me that’s the best time you can spend together. If cooking is not your cup of tea you can order it from outside as restaurants will be really crowded on this day.  Dress up in your favorites decorate your balcony/terrace and set the table with candles if possible.  Find good romantic movie so you can enjoy it after meal.

5. Create your own romantic way :

If you are single then also you can enjoy the day by your own.  Get some good romantic novel or movie  cook something special for you do the things you want to do since long time but couldn’t because clash royale gems generator of routine life listen your favorite music or celebrate with your friends. After all who else can loves you more than you?

Women can express their feelings better than men so this valentine don’t wait for your boyfriend or hubby to do something instead lift your evening and amaze them with celebration of love.