I would like to share an incident which is kind of funny as well as warned me about kids thoughtful mind.

One day while having family dinner I and my husband get into some argument and as a result I said please now no more talk. I don’t want to talk to you.

Unfortunately my son Arvin (5 years old) was listening all the conversation. Even though we were completely normal after that it left some impact on him.

Next morning my husband gave me normal routine call from office and as usual we talked for a while.

When I hang up the phone, Arvin who was drinking milk asked “mom yesterday you told daddy that you are not going to talk to him then why did you talk to him?”

I Replied (shocked) “Well I guess I forgot about that.”

He simply said “okay mom now next time when daddy will call don’t talk I will remind you!!!”

And I started wondering “such an innocent kid” as he didn’t know anything and wanted his father to apologize!!!

Even though it was just a simple silly fight about some random topic, we had to take lots of effort to explain him that fight was over and it wasn’t important.

Really kids teach us many things by their cute behavior. Thank you very much for sharing your sweet experience with us.

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Few days back my daughter Sanaya who is 6 years old came back from school in sad mood. When I asked her the reason she showed me her hand and said “see I got crying face today (A crying smiley).”

I said “It’s okay little girl. That means you must have done something wrong in school.”

Sanaya replied “no she gave me crying face means she doesn’t love me anymore.”

So I changed the topic and said “you know crying face means your teacher is sad today. She told you that that means she loves you like mummy. ”

And I added “You know actually teachers love kids more than anyone.”

She asked “more than mummy also?”

I nodded.

She looked at me with curious mind so I elaborated “see mummy has only 2 children to love so she loves you very much. But teacher has many children to look after and still she takes care of all of them and loves them equally. So that means teacher loves you more than mummy also.”

She cheered” oh that’s why teacher gave me sad face just like you tell me some times that you are sad.”

I smiled.

After an hour when Sanaya was leaving for her dance class she gave me good bye kiss and said “mummy you know mummy loves me more than teacher.” And left.

This left me in happy thoughts of course.

Wow what a great explanation. You truly deserve the cute reward your daughter offered for. Thank you very much for sharing your blissful experience with us.

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I would like to share one of the cute experiences with my friend’s daughter.

Recently we have attended a birthday party of 3 years old kid. She was turning 3 and she was really excited about her birthday. She was holding her birthday gown (no need to mention she was looking star in that) with her cute hands and welcoming everyone with please come, see balloons it’s my birthday!!!!!

Of course I liked each and every cute gesture of hers but the best part was when her mother started arranging the cake on cake table she clapped and called every one “Let’s go see cake is there let’s go see cake is there and started singing happy birthday song”. she was telling this to each and every person in the party!!!!

No doubt no one could refuse her cute invitation and gathered near to the cake table before her mother could lighten up the candles.

Really kids and especially girls truly enjoy their birthday. Thank you very much for sharing your cute experience with us.

We are inviting cute conversation from all the parents. You can write your experience to fosterfeel@gmail.com with the *name, age and photo of your kid and we will publish it on forstefeel.com/cute_conversation/ on every Tuesday.

*If you don’t want to reveal the identity of your kid, we will be happy to accept the experience with the age of your kid.

If parents will talk about their kids I am sure they will definitely talk about two things. 1. Feeding issues and 2. Sleeping trouble.

Doesn’t matter your kid is either 1 year old or 7 years old they will surely don’t like sleeping Time.

Your kid will be playing very nicely until you will say “it’s Sleeping Time Baby!!!”

So what to do? We should let them awake till the time they want? Or we should force them to sleep?

Letting awake till the time they will be ready might seems good idea to you, but the truth is it is not at all a good idea at the end. Reasons are

1. Kids normally don’t have idea whether they are sleepy or not so they will try to stretch themselves beyond their limit.
2. Kids don’t like to sleep as they don’t know the concept of time. They feel if they will sleep now they will miss lots of things. They don’t have the idea of tomorrow so they won’t be ready to sleep ever.
3. It will affect your kids’ health.
4. Because of incomplete sleep your kids will be difficult to handle.
5. Your kids will face troubles in concentrating the things. Result it decreases their grade.

Few parents complain that their kids’ are not listening to them at all and always up to some mischief, one of the primary reason behind this is they never focus on their kids sleep schedule. They allow their kids to sleep till evening 5 or 6 pm and then they complain my kid is always awake till 11 or 12 pm. Well you believe it or not if you think you are facing troubles to handle your kid then focus on his/her sleep schedule first because the truth is if your kids are unable to get 10-12 hrs night sleep continuously, they will be cranky whole day.

Try to set your kids’ sleeping routine for couple of weeks and see the difference in your kids’ mood. Good sleeping habit not only helps in health issues but also increase your kids’ memory power. Your kid will be fresh so s/he can focus more; s/he can listen more; s/he can learn more. So basically providing proper sleep at sleeping time is as much important as serving nutritious food.

Here I am providing you the necessary sleeping need of your kids to regain their energy.

So what do you think? Am I suggesting you to force your kids to sleep at 8? Well yes and no both. As I am telling you to put your kids on bed before 8 for sure but of course not by forcing them. After all who likes bedtime battles every day?

There are ways to put your kids on bed without battles and for that wait for my next article on 3S to stop bedtime battles.

It was a summer vacation when we with my 4 and half years old daughter Kiara went to see my parents.

One morning Kiara was not ready to take bath even though I tried to convince her a lot.

Finally I called my mother who was putting clothes in washing m/c and said see mom kiara is not getting ready for bath.

She looked at kiara and said “look at your clothes it’s pretty much dirty. It seems if you won’t go for bath I need to put you in washing m/c with your clothes!!!”

Kiara paused for a while and asked innocently “granny, do you think washing m/c will hurt me or it will just clean me softly like clothes!!!”

We surprised by her question and laughed like anything.

True, kids’ mind thinks more than we expect and so their questions really leave us amazed. Thank you very much for sharing your amazing experience with us.

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all the parents. You can write your experience to fosterfeel@gmail.com with the *name, age and photo of your kid and we will publish it on forstefeel.com/cute_conversation/ on every Tuesday.

*If you don’t want to reveal the identity of your kid, we will be happy to accept the experience with age of your kid.