Can mothers take a leave?

Foster Feel

First of all, I would like to apologize for putting my lovely readers and friends in such a long wait state. Foster Feel couldn’t post since long due to some technical issues and now it’s back and I can’t tell you how much thrilled I am to post one more article on this website.

“If you want to find a mother, follow her kid!”, joke people, but actually its truth. Mother and kids are glued with each other in such a way that kid/s are always in mother’s mind no matter how far she is.

A mother can go for shopping, a mother can go for a movie, a mother can go for dine out or if she is lucky enough, she can even go for a picnic or on a trip with her friends but does that mean she is on leave?

No, because no matter where she is, her thoughts are always around one word and that’s K I D S.

I consider my self as one of those lucky moms who can get a chance to sneak out for herself and recently I have been for a movie with few friends. Though, we have decided to enjoy it thoroughly without kids in our minds, just in 15 minutes, we were chattering about our kids! That’s call motherhood and our leave!

Though, we all want to go away from our motherhood (at least once in a month) and want to live life freely like before, the truth is it is history. Mothers can take a leave physically but mentally, she is always with her kids.

During our leaves, what we all can think about is our kids, their meals, their toys, their school schedules, their science projects and their mood swings. Hundreds of things are in our minds and most of those circles around our “Kids”. We go out with our friends to take a break as a mother and we end up talking about kids, whole time!

We love to complain about our kids when we know, the next person is going to tell us “Oh, yours is much better, look at mine!” That’s fun.  Isn’t it? That’s our motherly friendship where we know no matter how much frustrated we are with our kids, our friends are going to show us how good we are as a mother and how good our kids are.

I am proud mother not because I feel so, not because my kids say so, not because my family admires for that but I am proud mother because my friends think so and every now and then they remind me how good I am, so I don’t give up my good vibes and can give my 100% to my kids. That’s our friendship which only mothers can understand and only mothers can feel. And that’s our leaves where we constantly talk about our kids and still consider ourselves away from kids.

I am lucky to have these friends in my life who encourages me to be a good mother and so, I would love to dedicate this article to them.

Well, now you all know (most of us already knew) that mothers can take a leave but she won’t because no matter how much she craves for the one, she is incomplete without her kids.

If you too know these kind of mothers or have these kind of friends, please dedicate this articles to them.